Thursday, January 14, 2010

Game During The Week - Score on the Weekends



One of the pillars of the Lifetime Game philosophy is to avoid being average at all costs.  The average guy usually ends up with the average girl, has an average job, with a bunch of average friends, and then has a few average kids who then recreate the cycle.  With that being said, think about what the average single guy does during the week and on the weekends.

During the week the average guy comes home, watches 3-4 hours of TV, dabbles with a few video games, Facebook, Internet porn, etc. and then goes to sleep, only to wake up and do it all over again.  Then on Friday he heads to work, tells a few folks "TGIF" (cats with Game never say TGIF because if you have game your whole life is like a weekend, so Friday is just another day to you), and head to some bar/club in hopes of scoring with some average chick he convinced to give him the time of day.  Does that sound like a way to live?  I think it sounds rather pathetic, so my remedy for falling into that trap is to game hard on the weekdays, thereby freeing up your weekends to be stress free as you enjoy the company of all the women you lined up during the week.

I always felt that going on out the prowl during a Friday and Saturday night was inherently the wrong strategy, and then once I approached it scientifically and actually analyzed the data, it backed up my intuition.  The key to maximizing your game is to work while others are sleeping, bullshitting, and sitting at home doing nothing.  Forget wasting your time trying to compete with dudes on Friday and Saturday night.  If you go out like the typical guy on Friday and Saturday night you’re usually in packed environments with a lot of competition and subconsciously you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself to bag a prospect.  You probably have your going out outfit on and are all amped up for the night, and all that pressure throws off your game.  You’re not relaxed, with a carefree mind state that is going to attract women.  That’s not the way to go.  Here are some strategies on how to maximize your weekdays in order to free up your weekends for multiple episodes with women.

Get Active


If you're trying to keep your game tight, then it' should be a given that you're staying in shape and taking part in some type of physical activity.  You don't need to be a gym rat, but staying active not only keeps you in shape, improves your sexual performance, and extends your lifespan, but it also gives you ample opportunities to meet women.  If you're into jogging/running then you're sure to run across some fly honeys at the track or jogging around the park.   If you're into pumping iron, then you're sure to run across some ladies at the gym who share your interest in keeping fit.  Perhaps you're into yoga, which is definitely a good idea because despite its continual rise in popularity, yoga studios/classes are still a haven full of women with advantageous man/woman ratios.  These are activities you could be doing during the week.  If you're not meeting anyone while doing all of this, then you don't really want to meet anyone.

Food For Thought

The grocery store is one of the best places to meet women, and the best part about the place is that the amount of single men at the grocery store is usually very low.  It's a low pressure environment and it's mad easy to strike up a conversation with someone without coming off creepy, needy, or swarmy.  Another great thing about meeting women at the grocery store is that you know she has some culinary skills, and a woman who can throw down in the kitchen is much more valuable and worthy of you wifing up than a typical modern lady who eats out all the time and can barely heat up a frozen Weight Watchers meal without burning down her apartment.  Would you rather wake up to the smell of a nice omelet and some french toast after a nice night, or to her asking you "do you want to go to Starbucks?".

Happy Hours

Happy hours are nothing unique, but it never hurts to hit one up once a week or so.  Many women still flock to these after work staples, so it does behoove you to roll through and check out the prospects on occasion.  Depending on the type of woman you're targeting, you can select the appropriate type of spot to hit in order to maximize your chances of connecting with a woman you desire.  If you're not looking for a woman that's on some "I'm one of the guys" type steeze, then don't hit up the sports bar for Monday Night Football.  If you're looking for a more sophisticated, corporate type of lady, then hit up the spots near the financial district in your city.  Everyone has their own tastes, so make sure you're targeting the spots that are going to give you ample opportunities to flex your game and set something up for later in the week, if not that night.

The Clubs

Hitting the clubs during the week is a great way to chill and set things up for the weekend.  When you hit the clubs during the week, you're going to be encountering a different type of clientele/prospect than those you may encounter on the weekends.  The type of girl that goes out during the week tends to be a little more carefree and social than the typical prospects you might encounter on the weekends.  The woman that's hitting the clubs during the week probably doesn't have any kids, is probably more spontaneous, and is probably a little more fun than the girl who's sitting at home watching some horrible reality show or whatever else they're airing these days.   I suggest hitting clubs with different scenes/theme nights during the week.  Don't just hit the same club that spins typical R&B and dance music.  For example try hitting a club with a reggae night or one that plays a more underground genre such as dubstep.  Not only are you keeping your music game tight by not pigeonholing yourself, you're also exposing yourself to many different types of women which will only enhance your game in the long run. 

Other spots to hit up during the week include museums, bookstores, coffee shops, etc.

By enhancing and maximizing your game during the week, your weekends will become livelier and your social calendar will start to fatten up.  If you work it right, you could have 2-5 dates for the weekend, rotating your time with a host of women.  Once you start making this a habit, you'll notice how stronger your game gets because you're not only getting more practice, but you'll be much less stressed.  If you're trying get with 5 women and you only get with 2, you're still batting .400 and that puts you in the Ted Williams/Hall of Fame bracket.  It's much better than getting one chance at bat on a Saturday night and with pressure to knock one over the wall.

The world is yours…..


SOS Band- "Weekend Girl"

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