Don't Ask, Just Tell

One of the first steps along the road to success with a woman, unless you're on a sex the same night type mission, is getting the phone number.  Many guys get nervous or fumble this seemingly simple act.  Some will take too long to ask for the number, revealing more info than needed, when they could have gotten the number early and moved on to other pursuits, be it working the room or getting home to talk to the woman you met last night.  If you can't get a woman's phone number then you're striking out before the first pitch, and that's not a way to go out.  Getting the number is not as big of a deal as many make it out to be.  Here are a few tips to help you secure the number so that you can move on to more important matters.

Tell Her To Give You Her Number, Don't Ask For It!

This technique is gold because you're not asking for a woman's number, you're instructing her to give it to you.  Many may be afraid to do this because it appears a little too direct on the surface, but once you've tried it a few times you'll be amazed at how effective it is.  The beauty of this method is that you convey a few things early on:

a.) You're used to getting your way.  A yellow bellied simp would never have the balls to tell a woman to give her his number, so right there you're projecting your alphaness and coming across as someone who takes charge and leads.  Women want a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.  If you're all shy and soft spoken when asking for the number, that's how she thinks you'll be in regards to other areas of life.

b.)  You're socially savvy and are a seasoned veteran in regards to picking up women.  Some guys have the misconception that just because you come off smooth and seasoned that women will assume that you're a player and be turned off.  The opposite is the case.  Talk to a woman and they'll tell you the multitude of men they have dealt with that have no clue, no game, and interacting with these guys is a chore and a bore. These are the guys that get told things like "I can't give out my number" or "How about you give me your number instead".  You never want to be that guy.

You'd be surprised at how women will listen and follow your lead if you man up and approach situations in a bold and confident manner.  Women want a man who takes charge, is comfortable in his own skin, and gets what he wants out of life.  So give them what they want.  It's the least you can do.

Sample Line:

"It's been cool talking to you.  Go ahead and put your number in my phone and maybe I'll give you a call next week and we can (fill in the blank with some activity or interest you share)."

I suggest getting numbers instead of e-mail or saying you'll hit her up on Facebook.  Why create more barriers and steps than you need to go through?  And obviously, don't go for a number until you've built up the proper amount of rapport and attraction.

The world is yours...

Al Green- "Call Me"



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